Frequently Asked Questions

Yes.

Everything we do at the den is in complete alignment with city, county, state, and federal law.

All sessions are between consenting adults of legal age, for the purpose of exploring various and therapeutic aspects of power exchange, and there are NO sexual services offered in any sessions.

If you have concerns or questions about the legality of your specific interests, please feel free to give us a call and speak to a Mistress in more detail.

Absolutely. We take the health, safety, and anonymity of our clientele very seriously. We ask that you do the same for us. The dungeon is a secure facility in an industrial but safe area of Phoenix. If you are concerned, feel free to contact us. Ask a Mistress or Master to explain how we maintain cleanliness, safety, and discretion at our facility.

We have a 5000 square foot facility with a discreet, fenced, secure parking lot of an additional 5000 square feet.

We strive to make your arrival and departure private and as discrete as possible.

Please contact us with the following information:

• A brief description of your interests
• Your requested appointment date and time
• How long you would like to play?
• The name(s) of the Mistress(es)/Master you would like to see
• Let us know if you have any specific wardrobe requests.

Call for your Den or Phone session: 602.340.1775

The best way to prepare for your session is to inform your Mistress of your fantasies and desires in as much detail as possible. Think about what you want out of your time here. Do your best to communicate with your Mistress.

Please arrive as close to the start time of your session as possible, be showered and arrive with good hygiene. Minimal to no cologne or perfumes (in case of allergies) is preferred. Be prepared to pay your session tribute and any gratuities. We accept cash and credit.

Leaving a tip with your Dominant or Switch is a wonderful way to show us your gratitude for our time and experience.

If you would like to show your appreciation with an additional gift, but do not feel comfortable leaving a cash tip, we always appreciate gifts of food and drink that we can share with our fellow Mistresses. Many of us have our wish lists available on our profile pages.

A “session” is the period of time you spend with a professional Dominant, Submissive, or Switch. It includes a brief consultation before the start of your session. This consultation period is the right time to bring up any questions or concerns you may have about your session and to negotiate the limits of both parties involved as well as any pertinent health information.

Of course! We love to play together as well as for longer sessions. Please remember that we will need additional time to plan a session like this, therefore we may need more notice than usual to accommodate your request.

Every session is different. We pride ourselves on our creativity and flexibility in the scene. Your Dominant will have the ultimate and final decision for session ending. However, if you have a preference, please discuss with your Mistress prior to beginning your scene.

A “scene” is the entire space of play including the mood, setting, character, and narrative of your play. Your Mistress is a professional. She is skilled in tying knots and flailing whips, but the majority of her job consists of creating and maintaining your scene. Please allow her to do her job and trust her to create the best scene for you. If you have specific requests regarding your scene, the time to discuss that is during the consultation that takes place before your scene.

Someone who lives the Bondage-Discipline-Sado-Masochist (BDSM) lifestyle is a person who incorporates aspects of BDSM play into their personal and sexual relationships. Some people choose to live the BDSM lifestyle in extremely minimal ways – a pair of fuzzy handcuffs here or there, occasional spanking. Others live the lifestyle in a more committed way – 24 hours a day and 7 days a week power exchange relationships with simulated sexual slavery. Lifestylers can be gay or straight, men or women. They can be monogamous or polyamorous.

A professional Dominant or Submissive is someone who is paid an hourly rate to participate in a BDSM or fetish scene. Some professionals also live the BDSM lifestyler. Most of them have at least some experience and understanding in and of the lifestyle.

BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism.

Fetish is any type of play that focuses on a specific object, fantasy, body part, or act. There are all kinds of fetishes and many go hand in hand with BDSM. Not all fetishists are BDSM players and not all BDSM players are fetishists.

Absolutely! Please bear in mind that not all Mistresses specialize or have an interest in all fetishes but it is likely that we have a Mistress (or two!) who can cater to your interests. Please feel free to contact us to ask about specific fetishes.

Nope! We have an amazing play space and do not session outside of the Den.

We can potentially join you at a Fetish Ball, corporate event We also may be available for scene friendly, educational, and/or entertainment performances. Please call or contact us for more details.